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Can you hold two things at once?
Can you hold two things at once?

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Elizabeth Gilletteanxious attachment, anxious avoidant trap, anxious-avoidant, anxious, anxious-ambivalent, anxious avoidant dynamic, attachment styles, avoidant partner, avoidant attachment style, avoidant, anxious-avoidant relationship pattern, avoidant attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, attachment, anxious attachment style, secure attachment style, secure attachment, secure attachment relationship, Cultivating Secure AttachmentComment
This Attachment Statistic Blew My Mind
This Attachment Statistic Blew My Mind

I read an article recently that shared this statistic that I hadn’t heard before in my attachment theory studies:

“Further research tells us that in approximately 85 percent of cases a child…will have the same attachment pattern as the parent” (Buckwalter and Ehmen, 2013).

It makes sense that children will have a similar attachment style to their caregiver in a number of cases—but 85% of the time?!

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Elizabeth Gilletteattachment styles, attachment theory, attachment style, secure attachment style, secure attachment, anxious, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, avoidant Comments
When You Are Triggered in Your Relationship
When You Are Triggered in Your Relationship

Hello!

We've talked over the past several weeks about the importance of understanding attachment, how to learn our attachment styles, and some strategies for identifying our needs and our partner's needs when we are feeling disconnected. That's a lot of information! Thank you for being here and exploring this with me.

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Elizabeth Gillettepartnership, partnerships, relationships, trigger, triggered, soothing strategies, connection, anxious, anxious-ambivalent, avoidant, avoidant dismissive, attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, here to heal podcast, heirloom counseling Comments