Posts tagged self abandonment
I Want You to Step Into Your Agency
I Want You to Step Into Your Agency

Can I tell you a story about a girl who used to have a REALLY hard time in relationships?

She wanted to be in a relationship SO BADLY. She wanted to feel loved and respected. She wanted connection and to receive emotional support, and to give it, too. She tended to choose people who were emotionally distant or maybe needed to be convinced that they were ready for a relationship. This pattern didn’t work out well for her.

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Elizabeth Gilletteself abandonment, self-betrayal, self-awareness, attachment styles, anxious attachment style, insecure attachment, elizabeth gilletteComment
Self-Abandonment Ends Here
Self-Abandonment Ends Here

I recently shared on the Becoming Relational podcast that I’ve been struggling with feelings of low self-worth and doubt—a crisis of confidence! I predicted this would happen when I signed the contract to write my new book. I knew that this level of devotion to something so important to me would challenge me in ways I hadn’t been challenged yet. I’m familiar with this territory, so I know it’s temporary, but that doesn’t mean it’s not tough when it happens.

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Elizabeth Gilletteself abandonment, self-betrayal, anxious attachment, insecure attachment, anxious avoidant dynamic, attachment trauma, attachment therapy, attachment styles, elizabeth gillette, becoming relational with elizabeth gillette, come home to yourselfComment